One of the very youngest children on record to have committed suicide was Samantha Nicole Kuberski. Born in 2002, Samantha was a bright and beautiful, blonde-haired, blue-eyed, sweet, 6-year-old little girl who had her whole life in front of her. She was a first-grader in McMinnville, Oregon, she was loved dearly by her family, and had lots of friends.
On December 2, 2009, Samantha returned home from school with her three sisters. After getting into an argument with her mother, Kellie, little Samantha was sent to her room as punishment. Apparently, she then announced that she was going to kill herself, but no one took her seriously.
After being sent to her room, Samantha then decided to crawl into an unused crib, where she tied one end of a belt around a bar of the crib with the other end around her neck and hung herself.
Samantha left behind her devastated parents and three heartbroken sisters, and she will be forever remembered with love.
Some argue that a 6-year old wouldn’t have understood the possible consequences of her actions. However, investigators found that the child’s parents had warned all of their kids about the dangers of playing with belts around their necks. In a statement made by Oregon’s chief medical examiner, Karen Gunson, to KGW News, she was quoted as saying “Statements were made by the girl that indicated she was going to kill herself”. She continues, “She had the means and she realized that if she put something around her neck, it was dangerous and could cause death. My contention is that it shows intent”.
Unfortunately, there are lots of reasons why a person might decide that they want to end their life. Depression, anxiety, financial instability, mental illness, social pressures, not feeling accepted, are just the tip of the iceberg. The list of possible reasons is incredibly long and overwhelming. And for most suicide cases, the person’s reason may never truly be known.
Sadly, age does not seem to matter when it comes to suicidal ideations. According to data collected from 46 separate children’s hospitals, the number of children between the ages of 6-12 years old who were seen at these facilities for self-harm or suicidal thoughts has more than doubled since 2016. Over 5,400 inpatient or emergency room visits were documented in 2019.
However, only 29 suicides among children 10 years old and younger were actually reported by the CDC for the 2019 calendar year. This means that with proper intervention, mental health care, and medical attention, suicides in children could be preventable.
The signs of suicidal thoughts can be extremely subtle and hard to spot in children. It’s important to learn about potential warning signs, so if your child does have something going on, or making suicide threats, you’ll be much better able to intervene.
If you think your child may possibly be having suicidal thoughts, please reach out to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-8255.